Ask Allison: My daughter was excluded by pals because I don't allow social media. I'm furious their mums didn't intervene
Briefly

Friendship dynamics among children can change, especially during pre-teen years, influenced by factors such as social media access. In this case, a mother observes her daughter feeling sidelined during a social gathering. While the other girls are friendly, they are more focused on their phones and TikTok videos, leading to her daughter's exclusion. The differences in parenting choices, such as smartphone and social media access, further complicate the social landscape, creating a scenario where children navigate complex social hierarchies that may leave some feeling isolated.
The dynamics within childhood friendships can shift dramatically during the pre-teen years, often influenced by factors such as social media access and peer pressure. In this case, the exclusion of one girl highlights the social complexities that arise in these formative years.
Observing your child feeling left out is painful, especially when prior friendships seemed solid. Children begin to form their social hierarchies, which can lead to feelings of isolation for those who don’t fit the evolving mold.
Read at Independent
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