The article discusses the internal conflict experienced by someone who recently discovered their boyfriend's history of cheating. Despite his apologies and claims of growth, she struggles to reconcile her feelings for him with her past experiences of being cheated on. Dr. West offers commentary on the potential for change in individuals who have cheated, emphasizing the importance of reflection, remorse, and aligning actions with words as critical factors in determining if someone can genuinely change their behavior.
Do leopards change their spots? Sometimes. This is usually only due to them doing a lot of reflecting on how their actions have hurt others.
They have to demonstrate emotional maturity, and remorse. And - crucially - their words have to match their actions.
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