"Money is symbolic. It carries power, influence, and expectations. So even though it's his money and he gets to decide what to do with it, how he uses it in the relationship is your concern."
"If he's spending money he doesn't have and goes bankrupt later, he might start to feel resentful about all those fancy trips and dinners and gifts."
"Resentment and financial strain have a way of bringing out the worst in people, and it could cause some problems between the two of you."
"It's a little concerning that he wants to keep spending the same way and sees it as part of the relationship."
A woman feels guilty about receiving gifts from her wealthy boyfriend, who is secretly in debt. Despite her concerns, he insists on maintaining their lifestyle, claiming it alleviates his stress. The advice suggests that while he is responsible for his financial choices, the power dynamics in their relationship are significant. The potential for resentment and strain due to financial issues is highlighted, emphasizing the importance of addressing feelings of discomfort in such situations.
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