Nervousness can greatly impact sexual performance, especially when one has been anticipating an encounter. A buildup of tension may lead to the inability to perform, as self-doubt can interfere with arousal. An adverse reaction from a partner can exacerbate the situation, increasing self-consciousness and making future intimacy more difficult. Not all partners will respond negatively; supportive responses can help alleviate stress and improve chances of regaining performance in future encounters.
Sometimes that can make for explosive sex, like a well-oiled machine even if you don't touch lube. But sometimes it can make for the kind of ordeal you experienced.
All it takes is a speck of doubt to worm its way into your head for it to affect your wood. And then, when you see your dick isn't responding, you freak out a little bit more.
For the record, this woman's reaction was suboptimal. Giving you that look and treating you like a pariah will only add to your self-consciousness and make future sex with her stressful if not impossible.
People who really know dick know that playing this off as cool as possible is the best way to handle this. It increases the chances of wood returning.
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