"My husband and I have been married for three years, and we have a 2-year-old child. For the first six months of our relationship, we had a healthy, regular sex life. After that, my husband was not interested in sex, and for about two years, we had it very infrequently. My husband recently revealed to me that during that time, he thought a lot about why he would often become disinterested in sex with partners after being with them for a short amount of time."
"He discovered that a particular kink is extremely important to him, and that moving forward, it will be an essential part of sex for him. He has never incorporated this kink into past sexual relationships, and only now discovered it. He likened it to discovering his sexuality, in that it is a critical part of his sexual identity. (The kink is fantasizing about him being cuckholded-right now, just as a fantasy, but he would eventually like it to be a reality)."
"I have tried for about six months to explore this with him, and unfortunately, it does not turn me on at all (in fact, it does the opposite for me). I have agreed to incorporate this into half of our sex sessions. He has told me that he needs it to be a part of every sexual encounter we have and is frustrated that it does not turn me on in the same way it does for him."
Married three years with a two-year-old, the couple had a healthy sex life for the first six months, then experienced infrequent sex for about two years. The husband discovered a cuckolding kink he describes as essential to his sexual identity and wants it to be part of every sexual encounter. The wife tried to explore the kink for six months but finds it repulsive and agreed only to include it in half their sex sessions. The husband pressures for full incorporation, suggests open relationship or withholding sex as alternatives, and sometimes shows anger. The wife feels sexually unsatisfied and believes they may be sexually incompatible.
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