Maintaining a sexual life independent from a partner, like using AI for masturbation, can be healthy. Balance becomes an issue if it detracts from the relationship. If sexual energy is primarily consumed by solo practices and is affecting intimacy negatively, it needs addressing. However, having sex regularly and enjoying personal exploration indicates a healthy balance. Emphasis lies on ensuring both partners feel fulfilled and desired equally in the relationship.
You are allowed to have a sexual life of your own. Masturbation is healthy and a great way of keeping in touch with your own body and sexuality.
If you had written to say that all of your sexual energy is taken up by your masturbation and porn viewing, and that you and your partner don't like this, it would be a different issue.
It becomes problematic when it causes distress and/or is subtractive from your lifestyle.
You have struck a balance, enjoying both your masturbation and a fulfilling sex life with your partner.
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