SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies - Portland Mercury
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SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies - Portland Mercury
"Tell your spouse you're content with your companionate/sexless marriage and you want to make sure they are too. If they are, great. If they're not, well, better to hear it from them now than to find out when they file for divorce."
"As a trans man, it certainly always feels good to feel like someone is looking for me specifically. The fact that you're already considering how your excitement could make a trans guy feel fetishized is a sign that your heart and head are in the right place."
"It's all about communication and building to a place of mutual trust, respect, and care. And if you want to meet trans guys out in the wild, NYC is a great place to start."
Discussing the sexual dynamics in a marriage is crucial for both partners' happiness. If one partner is content with a sexless marriage, it's important to confirm the other's feelings. Open communication can prevent misunderstandings and potential divorce. Additionally, the experience of trans individuals varies, and understanding their feelings about being perceived can foster trust and respect. Building a relationship requires mutual understanding and communication, especially when navigating complex identities and desires.
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