"The share of American men reporting no close friends rose from 3% in 1990 to 15% in 2021. That's a fivefold jump in a single generation. Over the same window, the share of men with six or more close friends fell from 55% to 27%."
"There's a framework I came across recently from Geoffrey Greif, a professor at the University of Maryland who interviewed around 400 men for his book Buddy System: Understanding Male Friendships. His finding, broadly, is that men tend to build friendships "shoulder-to-shoulder," around doing something together, while women tend to build them "face-to-face," around talking."
Male friendship patterns in America have shifted significantly over three decades. The share of men with no close friends increased fivefold from 1990 to 2021, while those with six or more close friends dropped from 55% to 27%. This decline stems from how men traditionally build friendships. Research by Geoffrey Greif reveals men form bonds through shared activities—"shoulder-to-shoulder" interactions like sports or work projects—rather than through face-to-face conversation as women typically do. When life circumstances change and these shared activities end, the friendships often dissolve. Modern life transitions, career changes, and reduced participation in group activities have left many men without the structured environments where friendships naturally develop.
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