I Wrote Over 100 Letters To My Future Husband. Reading Them Now Has Been Excruciating.
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I Wrote Over 100 Letters To My Future Husband. Reading Them Now Has Been Excruciating.
"Purity Culture mandated a shift away from casual dating and toward dating with the express intention of a swift and Christ-centered marriage, especially for girls."
"In my imagination, being a bride was synonymous with being visible, honored and adored."
From the age of 14, over six years, more than 100 letters were written to a future husband, reflecting the influence of purity culture. This evangelical movement emphasized sexual abstinence, modesty, and traditional gender roles, particularly for women. The author recalls childhood experiences, including wearing a wedding dress made by her grandmother and engaging in imaginative play centered around being a bride. This fantasy represented a desire for visibility, honor, and adoration, highlighting the societal pressures surrounding marriage and femininity.
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