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The person who insists on driving themselves to every gathering instead of accepting a lift isn't always being independent, they may have learned that needing a ride home meant being on someone else's clock and mood - Silicon Canals

Driving themselves can function as an exit strategy, protecting autonomy learned from earlier environments where leaving depended on others’ moods.
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