Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoBeing in your 30s and suddenly losing patience with people you tolerated for a decade isn't a personality change - it's your nervous system finally having enough safety to enforce the boundaries it identified years ago but couldn't install because the cost of conflict was still higher than the cost of endurance - Silicon Canals
Personal growth in your thirties involves enforcing boundaries your nervous system identified long ago, not suddenly developing new recognition abilities.