Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoPeople who get inexplicably emotional when someone is unexpectedly kind to them aren't fragile - their nervous system has a very specific expectation of how the world operates, and genuine unprompted kindness violates that expectation so completely that the body doesn't have a prepared response and defaults to the only honest reaction it has left - Silicon Canals
Unexpected kindness triggers emotional responses because nervous systems trained by conditional or rare kindness struggle to process genuine, unconditional care that violates their learned expectations.