Asking Eric: I think their wedding plan is disrespectful to my mother
Briefly

The dilemma faced by a family celebrating their mother's 100th birthday highlights the complexities of scheduling significant family events. With a wedding competing for the same weekend, tensions rise as some family members feel disrespect for their mother's legacy. Suggestions for compromise lead to disagreements, emphasizing the need for open communication in navigating these overlapping celebrations. Ultimately, recognizing the importance of both events and the challenge of coordinating family schedules is crucial in mitigating potential conflicts while honoring tradition and milestones.
Your mileage may vary (quite literally) but making a 10-hour trip for the party and then, say, a few weeks later, making the same 10-hour trip for the wedding, had it been rescheduled, sounds much more inconvenient than the plan to have one event on Saturday and the other on Sunday while everyone is in town.
To plan his wedding, your niece's son is negotiating with the needs of his immediate family, the extended family and his fiancee's family.
As you start to travel down the branches of a family tree, calendaring gets complicated. It can be hard to settle on a compatible date with the people in one's own house.
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