Asking Eric: I found out my daughter is having a party and I'm not invited
Briefly

The article discusses a mother’s feelings of exclusion when her daughter planned a birthday celebration that did not include her or her husband, despite their close relationship. The husband agreed to babysit their grandchildren while Mack organized a larger party, which the mother felt should have included her family as well. The writer grapples with the balance between family obligations and emotional needs, realizing that feelings of hurt can stem from perceived neglect in family celebrations.
Depending on the guest list, the occasion and the vibe, some parties aren't invite your parents parties, but this wasn't one of those.
Other arrangements could have been made, and I completely understand your feelings of hurt and exclusion from what was meant to be a family celebration.
Your concerns are valid. It's essential to communicate feelings in a family setting, even when it feels uncomfortable.
The situation highlights a struggle many parents face—striking a balance between supporting adult children and asserting their own emotional needs.
Read at www.mercurynews.com
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