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fromPsychology Today
13 hours ago

Why Do Some Men Seem So Angry?

For some men, anger is the emotion they are most familiar with. Ask one of these men how he feels and you are likely to get a puzzled expression, unless, of course, he is angry, in which case he is often quite clear about how he feels. Some families have adapted strategies over the years to either avoid or manage men's unacknowledged anger.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
14 hours ago

How Patterns of Dysfunction Repeat in Families

In 5th grade, we had a class project to interview one of our grandparents. It seemed simple enough: Spend time with someone who loved you and ask them questions about their life. Looking back, I understand the real purpose of the assignment: to foster connection across generations, to learn what our grandparents' lives were like when they were our age.
Mental health
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
19 hours ago

Help! I Surprised My Mom With My Pregnancy Announcement. But the First Words Out of Her Mouth Devastated Me.

Parents can feel hurt when not told pregnancy news first, but that emotional reaction reflects their choices and is not the couple's obligation to fix.
fromVulture
1 day ago

Task Recap: Brace for Impact

A good crime show should feel like the toxic, luxurious relief of a well-earned cigarette break. "God, I needed this," you sigh as you swill a nice, cold drink with your one hand while you exhale a nice cloud of smoke. Luckily, that's precisely how "Family Statements" feels, a solid-world building effort by Brad Ingelsby that's primarily interested in driving the plot forward. A truly expert crime serial knows how to build atmosphere, dangle new clues, and complicate our detective's troubled family life.
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fromPsychology Today
1 day ago

Sally Rooney's 'Intermezzo' Through the Lens of Loss

Sibling relationships can combine deep belonging with mismatch, leading individuals to grieve different versions of the same parent and remain emotionally distant.
Television
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 day ago

I've spent a lot of my adult life trying to prove myself': Mawaan Rizwan on his long journey from shopping centre performer to Bafta-winning actor

Mawaan Rizwan's BAFTA success amplified public validation, blending surreal comedy with candid vulnerability while altering personal and professional dynamics.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

I'm ashamed of my daughter's messy garden. Should I say something?

Focus on curiosity rather than criticism; check whether garden neglect signals deeper issues like depression, caregiving difficulties, or a deliberate ecological choice.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 days ago

Madness on a mountain: for 15 years, my mom was trapped in a mutual psychosis

My 77-year-old mother wanted sympathy, the kind Mark believed was for the weak: offers of a cup of a tea, a hug. Long ago, decades even, she had learned not to seek it from him. With him, she was a trooper. At 62 she had retired and followed him up to a high desert mountain, 6,500ft (1,981 metres) in north-east California.
Medicine
Arts
fromsfist.com
3 days ago

'The Reservoir' at Berkeley Rep Plumbs the Depths of Addiction and Familial Love

A semi-autobiographical play portrays parallels between severe alcoholism and dementia through a young man's relapse, family dynamics, and intergenerational caregiving and recovery.
fromScary Mommy
3 days ago

A Dad's Anger Shouldn't Change The Mood Of The Entire House

My dad can come in a room and be mad about something, but it doesn't change the dynamic or energy of the room. We don't internalize his feels. His feelings don't set the mood for of the room.
Mental health
fromTODAY.com
4 days ago

Why Wanda Sykes Doesn't Run Her Jokes By Her Kids and Wife

When (my children) were in middle school, they did say, 'Um, hey, can you, like, not talk about us? Because our friends, you know, their parents let them see things that you do and then, you know, they joke on us.'
Humor
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
4 days ago

Asking Eric: I'm thinking of moving to escape these drop-in visitors

Establish and enforce clear home boundaries to prevent unannounced family pop-ins; protect personal space and consider refusing entry or changing locks.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
5 days ago

Help! I Moved Across the World for My Husband. Apparently, That Still Isn't Enough.

A non-Swedish-speaking spouse feels excluded at family events where relatives speak Swedish, creating communication barriers and perceptions of emotional distance.
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

Deaf review a young mother's struggles to be heard

Far from the Tree, Andrew Solomon's brilliant nonfiction book about parenting children different from oneself, offers the useful distinction between vertical and horizontal identities. Vertical identities are inherited a family name, an ethnicity, or a nationality; horizontal identities are qualities that define us which parents may have nothing to do with, such as the kinship people with autism feel with one another, or being gay or deaf.
Film
fromHi-Fructose Magazine - The New Contemporary Art Magazine
6 days ago

Nothing To Hide: The Sculptures of JinYoung Yu - Hi-Fructose Magazine

"A Family in Disguise starts with a situation where the transparent people, who just want to hide, have no choice but to greet their guests. The figures try to look ordinary, like any other happy family. They decorate, wear gorgeous clothes and stand side by side to greet the guests. At first glance, it seems like a lovely family but you cannot avoid feeling the somber atmosphere."
Arts
#wedding-etiquette
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago

Asking Eric: Would I be awful to pursue the handyman who dated my cousin?

Pursue the relationship cautiously: replace him as your handyman, discuss boundaries and needs openly, and ensure the arrangement fits both of your lives and schedules.
fromBusiness Insider
1 week ago

My mom's ex-boyfriend and I are still in touch after 30 years. He paid off my student debt, we travel together, and I call him my 'second dad.'

Charles says he instantly felt a bond when I demanded to sit on his lap as a toddler. All I know is that he has been the only man my mother has brought home (besides my father) that I've liked and accepted. While there was no initial plan to stay in my life, life (as we know all too well) had other plans.
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fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 week ago

Asking Eric: I think my wife should stop trying to fix the kids' vacation plan

Fixer instincts can create unnecessary interventions; asking about and listening to feelings before proposing solutions prevents creating problems where none exist.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Do You Really Want to Reconcile With Your Estranged Sibling?

Successful sibling reconciliation requires both parties' genuine desire, clear understanding of past causes, responsibility-taking, and patience over time.
Film
fromTODAY.com
1 week ago

Macaulay Culkin Says John Candy Was One of Few Who Noticed His Dad's 'Monster' Behavior

John Candy protected young Macaulay Culkin on set and recognized problematic behavior from Culkin's father, which worsened after Home Alone's success.
Film
fromTODAY.com
1 week ago

Ireland Baldwin Makes Rare Comments About Her 'Close Relationship' With Stepmom Hilaria Baldwin

Ireland Baldwin praises stepmother Hilaria Baldwin, citing a complex upbringing, close bond, and Hilaria's role in improving Alec Baldwin's health and well-being.
#parenting
fromBuzzFeed
4 weeks ago
Parenting

I've Kept This Secret For 56 Years. I'm Telling The Truth Now In The Hope That It Will Save Lives.

Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

I Spied on My Husband to Make Sure He Was Taking Care of Our Baby. What I Saw Shook Me to My Core.

Testing partners' attentiveness can reveal unexpected issues in parenting dynamics.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Mother-in-Law Thinks My Daughter Is "Hopelessly Ugly." She Won't Stop Trying to Change Her.

Boundaries must be set to protect Fiona from harmful and inappropriate comments about her appearance.
fromBuzzFeed
4 weeks ago
Parenting

I've Kept This Secret For 56 Years. I'm Telling The Truth Now In The Hope That It Will Save Lives.

Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Tenderfoot by Toni Jordan review coming-of-age tale has the makings of a classic

A 12-year-old girl’s life centers on racing greyhounds, familial gambling, and longing for independence as friendships fracture and home stability unravels.
Television
fromTODAY.com
1 week ago

EXCLUSIVE: Julie Chrisley Opens Up About the Family Milestones She Missed Behind Bars

Todd and Julie Chrisley's imprisonment, pardon, and return reshaped their family, prompting emotional recovery and public reintegration through a Lifetime series.
#sibling-relationships
fromIndependent
4 weeks ago
Relationships

Ask Allison: My relationship with my sisters has become more strained since they had children

fromIndependent
4 weeks ago
Relationships

Ask Allison: My relationship with my sisters has become more strained since they had children

Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Three Days in June by Anne Tyler audiobook review a masterclass in marital disharmony

Gail Baines, a socially awkward 61-year-old teacher, faces forced retirement and family tensions around her daughter Debbie's wedding.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

My In-Laws Ruined My Daughter's Party With Their Outrageous Antics. Well, They're About to the Reap the Consequences.

Limit children's exposure to grandparents' public conflict by imposing visitation conditions, requiring behavior change, or alternating individual visits.
fromScary Mommy
1 week ago

The 6 Types Of Mother-In-Law & How To Deal With Each One

Mother-in-law disputes are nothing new; generations of daughters-in-law have wondered what on earth they did to deserve the MIL they got (whether that's good or bad). But now, there's a new system for figuring out exactly what type of behavior your mother-in-law is displaying - and how you can cope. In her forthcoming book You, Your Husband & His Mother, psychologist Dr. Tracy Dalgleish lays out six different types of mother-in-law, what each one wants, how she acts, and what you can do in response.
Relationships
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fromBustle
1 week ago

Why The Best Vacations Include A Little Sister, Older Sister, & Her Husband

A close chosen-family trio of little sister, older sister, and brother-in-law creates effortless companionship and care on vacations and at home.
Podcast
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

A Comedy Writer Tries to Make Sense of Her Sex-Positive, Goofy, Sometimes Inappropriate Family

A childhood split between Argentina and the U.S. involved a loud, crass, sex-positive, and often hilarious nuclear family with complex emotional ups and downs.
fromABA Journal
2 weeks ago

Estranged son of Donna Adelson, charged with law prof's murder, called as a government witness

Robert Adelson said he considered the arrests "big news" but his mother did not bring it up during the phone call. He finally broached the topic, according to the Tallahassee Democrat's coverage. "I said it at least two or three times-that they made an arrest, they got the guy who killed Danny," Robert Adelson testified. "And her response was, 'I've got to go.'"
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fromTODAY.com
2 weeks ago

Savannah and Jenna Reveal How Their Households Changed When Their Kids Went Away to Camps

Co-hosts experienced renewed freedom when children attended sleepaway camp, and observed notable behavioral changes and new family dynamics upon separation.
#infidelity
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

Beyond the Koala Bear

Every family has its labels. There's the "responsible one," the "troublemaker," the "baby," the " shy one." These roles aren't always written down, but they get handed out and reinforced in countless small ways: the jokes at family dinners, the stories told at holiday gatherings, the nicknames that stick long after they're funny. In my family, I was the "koala bear." Not because I loved animals, but because I clung to my mom-literally.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks ago

There Is No Other Hand

Every week in my psychology practice, I meet people from around the world who share stories marked by loss, hope, fear, love, displacement, and resilience. Listening to them has deepened my understanding of how culture and tradition influence identity, relationships, and a sense of belonging. Yet I also see how these very foundations can be used to justify war, leaving individuals and families caught in an impossible dilemma: whether to uphold
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fromwww.npr.org
2 weeks ago

Get caught up in family drama at the movie theater this weekend

Three films examine family dynamics and crime with varied tones: tender in A Little Prayer, explosively dark in The Roses, and gritty in Caught Stealing.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
2 weeks ago

Harriette Cole: Now that I've proposed, I'm getting worried about marrying her

Use open premarital counseling to resolve doubts about partner-family dynamics, and prioritize career choices that offer personal fulfillment over only salary or familiar workplace relationships.
fromIndieWire
2 weeks ago

Meghann Fahy's Favorite 'Sirens' Scene Was an 8-Page Fight with Milly Alcock That Felt Like a Rollercoaster

But you'd think someone would have sent two-time Emmy nominee Meghann Fahy - the magnetic star of Netflix's delicious "Sirens," from showrunner and playwright Molly Smith Metzler - an Edible Arrangement by now. "I actually haven't gotten one of those yet, which is fine by me, because, girl, I dragged that thing around for what felt like weeks," the actress recently told IndieWire.
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Parenting
fromslate.com
2 weeks ago

My 3-Year-Old Daughter Is Learning a Key Life Skill. My Mother Insists on Correcting Her, Even Though She's Done Nothing Wrong.

Insist that caregivers stop forcing a child to use the right hand and respect the child's natural left-hand preference to avoid distress and developmental interference.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

My Husband Pushed Us to Live Closer to His Family. Now He's Complaining About the One Thing I Ask for in Return.

Unspoken expectations about family visits and unacknowledged effort for travel can cause resentment between partners.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Dear Abby: The bride's mother thinks the wedding was ruined? She needs to apologize.

Parents should respect that weddings belong to the bride and groom and prioritize meaningful presence over extravagant demands.
Television
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

'The Summer I Turned Pretty': Character Attachment Styles

Attachment styles, grief, and family dynamics shape characters' romantic choices, emotional responses, and relationship conflicts in The Summer I Turned Pretty.
#teen-behavior
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago
Music

Pat Carty on kids at gigs: 'Could I have imagined the da or ma beside me at Slane for Bowie? Not unless I was in a sweat-soaked nightmare'

fromIndependent
3 weeks ago
Music

Pat Carty on kids at gigs: 'Could I have imagined the da or ma beside me at Slane for Bowie? Not unless I was in a sweat-soaked nightmare'

Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Dear Abby: The neighbors took my husband to dinner, and I was left behind

A husband attended neighbors' thank-you dinner without including his wife, revealing possible deeper relationship issues that may benefit from marriage and family therapy.
Relationships
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago

Dear Mary: My mum is barely dead and my dad seems to have already found a replacement in a woman she didn't like

Daughter is worried about elderly father after mother's death, frequently delivering home-cooked meals while balancing work and household responsibilities.
Medicine
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

Help! I Met Up With My Son-in-Law for "Coffee." I'm Shocked by What Actually Happened.

THC syrup was added to a mother's coffee without her full awareness, producing surprising intoxication and realization hours later.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
3 weeks ago

The Emotional Whiplash Of Parenting (& Loving) Your Tween

Parenting a tween can involve intense emotional changes reminiscent of the toddler years.
Relationships
fromThe Atlantic
3 weeks ago

Dear James: Do I Need to Be Nice to My Aging Stepfather?

Kindness outweighs past grievances regardless of the history, and should be practiced towards those in need.
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Why Empty Nesting Is Both Harder and Richer Than You Think

Empty nesting is an ongoing process that impacts both parents and children, fostering mutual growth and challenging relationships.
Relationships
fromIndependent
4 weeks ago

Can my late brother's child remove contents from the home, even though his widow still lives there?

Family disputes over inherited property can cause emotional distress and rifts among relatives.
US politics
fromWIRED
3 weeks ago

People Are Trying to 'Deprogram' Their MAGA Parents Through Book Clubs

Divisive politics prompt individuals to distance themselves from family members, seeking connection through activities like reading and conversation.
fromwww.mercurynews.com
3 weeks ago

Miss Manners: The wedding planner said I couldn't sit with my partner

You should feel proud of yourself for handling an awkward situation graciously.
Dining
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fromAdvocate.com
4 weeks ago

This gay man's riveting memoir explores addiction, drug smuggling, and Studio 54

A young gay man's reckless journey through addiction, drug trafficking, and family dynamics unfolds in Louie Mandrapilias's memoir, Flew Too High.
fromBusiness Insider
4 weeks ago

We moved our family to Hawaii for my wife's job. Now, we're separating and back in New York with the kids.

The challenges of moving to Hawaii, a place that held special memories for us, did not alleviate the existing tensions in our relationship.
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Women
fromTODAY.com
4 weeks ago

Jana Duggar and Husband Stephen Wissmann Are Pregnant With First Baby! What She Said

Jana Duggar is expecting her first child, due in January 2026.
fromVulture
4 weeks ago

What Tony Hale Watches (and Listens To) With His Daughter

"Nothing is cooler than when a kid watches a movie and feels like they're really being seen," Hale says. Sketch, he hopes, will teach kids that they're not alone in the world, despite whatever feelings might be churning inside.
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Film
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 weeks ago

Christy review outstanding actors and Cork landmarks shine in a moving and funny Irish drama

A warm Irish film about two brothers navigating struggles and personal growth in Cork, balancing humor and emotional depth.
Real estate
fromBusiness Insider
4 weeks ago

A well-meaning but costly move to Georgia changed the course of my life.

A significant move to Georgia due to a financial opportunity led to unforeseen challenges and ultimately personal upheaval.
Parenting
fromslate.com
4 weeks ago

My Daughter Moved in to Help After I Got Sick. Well, I'm Better Now and She's Got to Go.

Daughter's lack of contribution to household work worsens the mother's recovery from leukemia.
Health
fromSlate Magazine
4 weeks ago

Help! I Can't Get Married for a Very Good Reason. My Boyfriend's Parents Hold It Against Me.

Health benefits from a deceased spouse are crucial for managing chronic illness costs.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
4 weeks ago

My partner's an impulsive spender while I'm a saver. I'm worried for our kids' future - how can I get through to him?

Impulsive spending habits can create financial insecurity in relationships and impact future generations.
Travel
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 weeks ago

How we survived a Spanish holiday with our teenagers

Family dynamics during vacations have shifted as children's preferences evolve, leading to a more complicated family holiday experience.
Television
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 weeks ago

It was a really scary house': Princess Andre on privacy, fun, ambition and life with Katie Price

Princess Tiaamii Andre stars in her own reality show, The Princess Diaries, amidst family tensions with her mother, Katie Price.
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 weeks ago

I've been stupid and I miss you': the family members who buried the hatchet after years of silence

"We started to have issues when I began having my own opinions," says Bruce, reflecting on the growing divergence between his and Scott's perspectives during their teenage years.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

My mom told me she never wanted grandkids. When I became pregnant, she was distant and absent - until she met her grandson.

When I got pregnant, my mother wasn't excited, and she remained distant. She eventually came around to love my child, healing our mother-daughter relationship.
Relationships
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Are you asking for my help to be gay?': what 40 years as a psychoanalyst has taught me about sex and desire

Humans experience uncertainty and conflict regarding their desires despite societal pressures for certainty.
Relationships
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Asking Eric: I think my friends' focus on their grandchild is not healthy

Engaging a child in conversation is beneficial for their development, even if it limits adult interactions during visits.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Is "Family Loyalty" a Thing of the Past?

Around half of all families are affected by estrangement or alienation. Families can fracture due to cultural or political divides that are challenging to overcome. Grandparent alienation is on the rise, resulting in collateral damage to grandchildren as familial disputes escalate. Family members often face a choice between walking away or addressing their 'line in the sand' issues.
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fromJezebel
1 month ago

Nicola Peltz's Friend Is Coming in Hot to the Great Beckham Beef of 2025

Nicola Peltz demonstrated courage by standing up against negativity and toxic family dynamics, especially regarding her relationship with Brooklyn Beckham.
Relationships
fromVulture
1 month ago

Outlander: Blood of My Blood Recap: Succession Plans

The story highlights the bravery and strategic role of women, particularly Ellen MacKenzie, in navigating familial and clan politics.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

First it was family, now it's a feud. But even in meltdown, Brand Beckham is raking it in | Marina Hyde

The Beckham brand represents a contemporary family dynamic where public and private life intertwine, showcasing an image carefully curated through social media for a global audience.
Digital life
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

3 Ways Black Sheep Break the Cycle of Dysfunction

In dysfunctional or abusive families, fixed family roles sustain dysfunction, allowing those with power to externalize blame onto a scapegoat, often a black sheep.
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fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Nick Cannon Says He Doesn't Believe In The Term "Co-Parenting"

Nick Cannon does not believe in the term 'co-parenting,' arguing it should just be considered 'parenting.'
Film
fromRoger Ebert
1 month ago

Hawaiian Shirts Are Great to Fight In: Bob Odenkirk on "Nobody 2" | Interviews | Roger Ebert

Bob Odenkirk effectively blends comedy and action in 'Nobody' and its sequel, portraying a suburban dad turned hitman facing family dynamics.
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fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

"An Open Heart," by Jamil Jan Kochai

A father undergoes surgery that leaves a bomb in his chest while grappling with violent imagery and familial tensions over gruesome footage.
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fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Dad Is About to Be Honored for His Storied Career. No One Knows What He Sacrificed to Get There.

Posthumous awards reflect community values rather than personal deservingness.
fromBusiness Insider
1 month ago

I'm glad we got a house with my in-laws when I was pregnant. We have separate kitchens, plenty of space, and their support.

According to the Pew Research Center, there were 59.7 million U.S. residents who lived with multiple generations under the same roof as of March 2021 - a number that has quadrupled since 1971.
Renovation
Mental health
fromwww.mercurynews.com
1 month ago

Asking Eric: My brother refused to leave his house. Now he's gone without telling us.

Mike's mental health issues and possible addiction are leading to increasing isolation and family distress.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Nobody 2 review Bob Odenkirk's suburban tough guy beats action sequel into submission

The sequel features Hutch returning as a suburban assassin, engaging in relentless fight sequences against numerous foes, ultimately leading to a massive war-zone finale.
Film
Women
fromYourTango
1 month ago

Women Are Starting To Give Up On Trying To Have It All

Women are increasingly leaving the workforce to prioritize childcare over professional careers.
fromwww.independent.co.uk
1 month ago

Children often having final say when it comes to families moving house

In a recent survey, 74% of families reported that children have the final say regarding moving into a new house. This indicates the significant influence children have in housing decisions, asserting their views in family discussions about relocation.
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