"Kids need to feel safe bringing their full selves to you. That means, not just the good parents. We are talking about fears, jealousy, and even their worst 'what if' thoughts. But let's be clear: emotional safety doesn't mean tiptoeing around your child or avoiding setting boundaries. It means sending a message that 'all of your feelings are welcome, but your behavior still matters.'"
"If you have read my prior posts, you have heard me emphasize that children don't thrive on endless flexibility. They thrive on clear, steady limits. Comforting a child is important but it is not enough. Parents must also provide structure and follow through on their commitments to help children feel secure."
Children require emotional safety to express their feelings without fear of judgment. They thrive on clear, consistent limits rather than endless flexibility. While comforting a child is important, it is insufficient without establishing boundaries. Parents often struggle with maintaining structure while providing empathy. Emotional safety allows children to share their fears and anxieties, while containment provides the necessary limits that help them navigate their emotions and behaviors effectively.
Read at Psychology Today
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