Asking Eric: I'm finished with this friendship since I realized what she was doing
Briefly

A friendship has developed characterized by differing attitudes toward money and gratitude. One party feels taken advantage of after consistently paying for expenses, while the other has not reciprocated. The relationship's imbalance has led to feelings of guilt and frustration. Open communication is needed to determine if a healthier dynamic can emerge, as avoidance will only prolong discomfort. Understanding each other's perspectives on financial responsibilities is essential in navigating this situation.
You two have different attitudes about money. Hers comes across as immature, if I'm being my most generous, predatory if I'm being less so.
It's perfectly reasonable to expect a person to feel and show gratitude for these things, but I can also see how that could be a growing edge for her.
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