Growing up in Baltimore during the 1960s, there was a strong influence from family about maintaining dignity and avoiding bad attention due to race. Public behavior was closely monitored; wild outbursts were completely unacceptable. Religious upbringing shaped behaviors, with strict rules from a grandmother who was an evangelical Christian. Simple actions like staring were discouraged, particularly towards white people. The family was also conscious of race during social outings, illustrated by concerns that the brother, appearing less colored, would be treated differently at a Christian camp.
Growing up in 1960s Baltimore, my siblings and I did not dare be out of control in public. It was ingrained in us that attention could be dangerous.
My maternal grandmother was a Billy Graham-loving evangelical Christian, which influenced our household rules, such as never dancing on Sundays.
Staring was impolite, particularly toward white people. I was taught to refrain from showing interest in them, but I couldn't help myself.
Family and friends thought my brother would be safe at camp because he had light features and didn't look 'too colored', but my situation drew more concern.
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