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1 day agoThis straight dude wants to get pegged, so he's asking the gays for help - Queerty
Many straight men are curious about pegging, but societal norms often discourage exploration of such sexual experiences.
You wrote that you know you would think less of him. If you're certain, or even fairly certain, that you will lose a significant amount of attraction or respect for your partner if you proceed with a particular sex act, the situation is more high-risk for the relationship than a turn-off or a lack of interest would be. "Mean" here would look like using language of shame and judgment when talking to him about it: "Ew, gross, I'll never see you as a man again."