"I felt like, if I wasn't there to buy groceries, cook and clean, he might die."
"I needed to be needed. If the person I was dating didn't need me, then what value did I have?"
"Because I couldn't save her, I sought romantic relationships with men or women I thought I could save instead."
"I admired the strength it took to end the cycle of trying (and failing) to save his son."
The article reflects on the author's tumultuous relationship, characterized by red flags and dependency. Despite recognizing the unhealthy dynamic of becoming both a partner and caretaker, the author connected this behavior back to childhood experiences and the loss of a friend. A pivotal moment occurs while watching "Beautiful Boy," leading to a personal epiphany about the limitations of enabling addiction. Ultimately, the author decides to end the relationship, appreciating the strength required to let go of the need to rescue others.
Read at www.theguardian.com
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