Sibling rivalry is a normal aspect of family life where children compete for their parents' love, attention, and financial resources. This rivalry peaks during childhood and adolescence, often leading to competition in skills and interests. While some rivalrous behaviors are common and can help foster confidence and identity, parents must recognize when these behaviors escalate to ensure they do not harm sibling relationships. In moderation, sibling rivalry can be advantageous, motivating children to excel and find unique niches within the family.
"Look how fast I can run, Dad." - Sibling 1 "I can run even faster. Look at me!" - Sibling 2 Parents may notice that, at times, their children try to 'outdo' one another or comment that they are not as good as, or, alternatively, that they are better than, their sibling. Such behaviors are not uncommon and are likely signs of normal sibling rivalry. Sibling rivalry is a common feature of family life; such feelings peak in childhood and adolescence and then typically decrease with age.
Though some level of sibling rivalry is to be expected, some parents may wonder whether their children's rivalrous behavior has gone too far. Additionally, some parents may want to know whether they should be concerned when such behaviors occur more frequently and intensely.
Sibling rivalry is often driven by children's competition for their parents' love, attention, and financial support. Parents' resources are limited and must be divided among their children. So, children tend to develop skills, abilities, or interests that differentiate themselves from their siblings and enable them to gain unique attention from their parents.
Sibling rivalry in moderation can be positive for children because it can drive them to find things that they are good at, which then bring them unique successes to enjoy. Rivalry can also help children develop their identity, confidence, and place in the family.
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