For millennia human beings have had hands, used hands casually, without even thinking about it, like they were no big deal. And everything was fine with hands until...some wizard realized you could rest the top third of your opposing fingers together while pressing the pads of your thumbs together below and make an approximation of the shape of a heart.
"The way you experience life in your home is determined by how you do your housekeeping. It is your housekeeping that makes your home alive, that turns it into a small society in its own right, a vital place with its own ways and rhythms, the place where you can be more yourself than you can be anywhere else."