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3 months agoAsking Eric: How I made sure I'll get what I deserve when my dad dies
Effective communication and financial transparency can prevent sibling conflicts in caregiving situations.
"I remind myself of the billions of people (and animals) who have gone through it already. It's like when I was doing my driving test and I would look at other people and think, 'If they are able to drive, then surely I can!' You'll be joining all your ancestors, Marilyn Monroe, Jesus, the Queen Elizabeths, and many more. If they can all do it, so can you..."
Older Americans are facing a difficult choice: leave behind a career they've built for decades to care for their parents, or stay at their job and cover the high cost of care.